"My mistakes are my life"
-Samuel Beckett.-
It is very common that people wants to have a perfect life, without making mistakes. I think that is because when we make a bad decision or something doesn`t work the way we had planned it, it often causes pain. For instance, if a young person doesn`t choose his career well and he stars going to the University and after a while he regreats and retires, it is probably that the family of the person reproach him. Though it is understandable from point of view of the economic costs of that bad decision, it is shame that it looks like people doesn`t have the opportunity to get a little bit lost in the road of life, just in order to find there selves.
I think that when we realize that we have made a mistake we are in front of an opportunity to learn about our selves. If we become conscious of the causes of the mistake and if we are very honest with our selves about our feelings in regard of the bad action or decision, we can accept what has happend and integrate it in order to rectify the mistake and make much better choises the next time.
Nevertheless, I`m not saying you should make mistakes on purpose!. I`m refering to the inocent mistakes that people often make without bad intentions, although I think this learning process may apply to bigger mistakes if their is enough collective coscience.
I cannot agree more about the fact that it seems that we don't have the opportunity to get lost with our decisions sometimes...it's so necessaryyy
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